Wednesday, October 29, 2014

First Impression

It is a sad affair how in life most of the things we are judged by first appearance. Though some people believe that the first appearance never betrays, but I believe, it is not in all circumstances. You can meet someone when they are undergoing some pressures, therefore, in most cases they are not themselves.


For instance during interviews some people pass interviews because they have mastered the technique of answering questions but; not because they are qualified for the position whereas the person who is qualified ends up being nervous and messing up the interview. It has never been good neither will it ever be applicable to judge a book by its cover. Let’s learn to give people the chance and time to learn them and experience their best skills. In one way or the other we all need each other.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The Irony of life

Life is ironic and maybe that is how God finds humor in it. Have you ever noticed that 90% of the time people will always believe they know what is best for you more than you know what is good for yourself? Maybe it was a sign to show that the inventor of Johari’s window was wrong. The windows maybe should have been three instead of four. i.e. what God knows, what people know about you and the unknown. The unknown should be like 1% anyway that is the irony of life the principle factor is frequently ignored.


In the same cases, the person who needs the least help in most cases is the person who gets the most support especially from the people around them. In most cases, this person will end up messing then that is when people will notice they made the wrong choice. The good part is that God is not like man, therefore, that child who is just crying and praying that they will get school fees they get sorted eventually.


Yeah, that is the irony of life those who have it on a silver platter never know the value of the platter. So next time you think of helping don’t assume you know which is the best way to help someone, just ask them. Everybody knows themselves better than what other people know. Do not waste that silver platter on someone who does not know the value of it.www.highwaytokenya.com